Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Life Lessons by Randy Pausch

I read Randy Pausch's The Last Lecture last year and only now can I properly compile all the good stuff he's taught me. These are just some of the many lessons he imparts in the book. I hope these few lines contribute to making your life better.

{source: Ines Perkovic}

1. We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.

2. You've got to get the fundamentals down, because otherwise the fancy stuff is not going to work.

3. When you see yourself doing something badly and nobody's bothering to tell you any more, that's a bad place to be.

4. On kids and building their self-esteem:
    - It's not something you can give;  it's something they have to build.
    - You give them something they can't do, they work hard until they find they can do it, and you just keep repeating the process.

5. Brick walls are there for a reason. They give us a chance to show how badly we want something.

6. Time is all you have. And you may find one day that you have less than you think.

7. The most useful to-do list breaks tasks into small steps.

8. Give yourself permission to dream.

9. If you took one-tenth the energy you put into complaining and applied it to solving the problem, you'd be surprised by how well things can work out.

10. Don't obsess over what other people think.

11. Almost everybody has a good side. Just keep waiting. It will come out.

12. It's not how hard you hit; it's how hard you get hit, and keep moving forward.

13. Go out and do for others what somebody did for you.

14. When you go into the wilderness, the only thing you can count on is what you take with you.

15. If you want something bad enough, never give up (and take a boost when offered).

16. Sometimes, all you have to do is ask, and it can lead to all your dreams coming true.

17. If you lead your life the right way, the karma will take care of itself. The dreams will come to you.


peace+love

Friday, December 14, 2012

The Mixtape Diaries Debut



I think I'll be making more mixes soon. 8tracks makes it so easy. There are so many awesome mixes out there, all created by individuals with the same taste in music as you. You're bound to find someone who likes the same music that you do. 

I'm gonna try to make one every Friday. Don't be surprised if you hear "old" ('cos the word old is so subjective these days) music because I'm not the best person to seek for new and good music. I'm lucky I have friends sharing awesome music with me here and there. But I will most likely be leaning towards chilled out stuff. 


peace+love

Monday, December 10, 2012

Listography / To do

While I will not lie that I'm excited about our big day on the 29th this month, I'm also very excited about what's coming our way after that. More specifically, what's coming my way. Or to put it better, where I'll be heading, in terms of livelihood. I've already got my life partner, now all I need to work on is myself. So in the spirit of Bianca's To Do list, here's mine with a twist. 

It's more like a New Year's Resolution list, To-Do style.


*note my need for Photoshop skills. I made this using Paint, bless me.

Also, just wanted to remind myself that I actually lived in the moment last Friday. There was a call for extra talents in a video shoot the next day and I jumped at the chance. I'm quite proud of myself. I didn't over-think and just went for it. It turned out to be super fun and I met so many nice and interesting people. That's something I can tick off my bucket list. (Ooh, another idea for a list. Coming soon)

+One thing I forgot to put on there: I need to figure out what I want to do with this little blog of mine. I would really like this blog to expand and get more readers. Which means I would also need to be more disciplined in providing a good and consistent reading experience here.

I can't believe there's only 18 days to go before the craziness. I keep forgetting that Christmas is around the corner. 

much love & more peace

Sunday, December 9, 2012

All the Glitter in the World




Alberto Seveso. 'Nuff said.

Okay, I'll say a little more. I previously shared his work on ink in water on my tumblr a year ago . Now he photographs glittered ink in water. My mind just got blown - again. He's some kind of magical elf-being for creating such beauty.

It's like he's making us look at simple things, things we might take for granted, and showing us that any simple thing is really beautiful. We just have to look at them in a different light (pun not intended), a different way, (in this case, a whole other different way). We just need to appreciate them a little better.


peace & love

Friday, December 7, 2012

Remembrances

A few days ago, the mister emailed this post to me about how important it is to utilize your time while you're still alive and I connected with it so much. I'm going through a small rut in terms of what I want to do with my life (job-wise); so many inspirations, I'm like a 'Jack of all trades' but instead of 'trades', I have interests. The Jack of all interests, master of none. 

Not too catchy.

I just want to share a very awesome teaching I got from that Scrawny to Brawny post. 

This is extracted from the 5 Remembrances of Buddhist philosophy:


And this quote came in the email message:

Caretake this moment.
Immerse yourself in its particulars.
Respond to this person, this challenge, this deed.
Quit the evasions.
Stop giving yourself needless trouble.
It is time to really live; to fully inhabit the situation you happen to be in now.
You are not some disinterested bystander.
Exert yourself.
- Epictetus

Love these two sets of words. Simple yet effective. Yes, I'm in that place where I need words to motivate me, push me; towards a more meaningful life (seriously).

Ear-pleaser of the day: Taro - Alt-J
peace+love